If you don’t think you’ve ever had an orgasm, then, in all likelihood, you are right — and this is called primary anorgasmia.
10 to 15 percent of women have never had an orgasm. The causes for this range from feeling sexually inhibited so that you are unable to really explore what is most exciting for you and subsequently can’t tell your partner what would work either, to having suffered from some sexual trauma earlier in life making you afraid of being sexual, to the use of medication (like antidepressants) or too much alcohol, which can make having an orgasm more difficult.
The Value of Masturbation
Usually, however, it is just that you haven’t yet figured out what works for you. This is why it is so important to take the time to stimulate yourself in private, so that you can figure out which parts are the most sensitive and what exactly feels best. Really, it’s hard to overstate the value of good old-fashioned masturbation. Most women cannot climax from intercourse alone (only 20 percent can) and really need direct clitoral stimulation (with a hand, a tongue or whatever else seems handy). To help you along in your quest for a climax, the use of Vigorelle clitoris stimulant cream can be invaluable!Read More »How to Achieve Female Orgasm